Tuesday, April 15, 2008

April 15th......M's B-day and thought it was appropriate



Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Forget about the one's who don't. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

7 comments:

Jade said...

Hope you were able to find peace within yourself when posting this my friend.I think its a deep dedication... I"m reaching out. So if you need me just grab on k?

Wishing you a peaceful day.

Mary said...

Hey sweetie,
I read this forgiveness mantra and still find it helpful, I hope you do too; I know the universe has better things in store for you than M.

"I love myself enough to let you go now. I choose to detach from carrying you around with me, weighing me down and disabling me from moving on and having a good life. I forgive you and I forgive me. I am truly sorry but I must let you go. I surrender you to the universe. I choose to be free of any attachments that keep me from experiencing the peace and joy to which I am entitled."

lauren said...

Jade, I love you darlin!!! Thank you for always checking in on me!!! I wish we could have connected this weekend, but we will soon sweeite!!!

lauren said...

DG- The best thing I think about posting this is that honestly I have been dealing just fine with the M stuff, or maybe just ignoring it, but I think your mantra is just EFFING perfect, I have to be able to completely forgive him and myself, and I want to because honestly the thought of him makes me ill, I mean physically ill, I think mainly because I not only wasted so much time on him but it really was not where I have wanted to be, I think that reality has really hit me in the last several months and just lately am or have I been able to deal with that more!
Forgive me Heidi Forgive me!!!!!! That is what is important right my sweet loving dg!
Miss you sweets!!!!! and thank you for the reminder!!! Hey also going to check out a meeting this week!!!!!!! Acutally excited about it! WEIRD????

Anonymous said...

My dear, I just loved reading these words of yours.
I thought you were in peace with yourself and the world when writting them ... please, stay like that!

Spiky Zora Jones said...

lauren...You bring tears to my eyes sweetie. I want all the good things this world has to offer for you...always.

You have many that care for you honey...be strong and always know you make this place called earth a much better place for us that you have touched. You are a beautiful person.

kisses and hugs for you babes.

Mary said...

Girl, I just now saw your comment here. I'm so glad you are thinking about checking out a meeting. I may try to call you tonight cause I am planning on going to my first one.

And I 100% percent get EVERY WORD of how you feel about M. That is how I felt about my M. too. It hits you sometimes when you least expect it. It is normal, there are so many hard emotions to go through.

Love you!